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Toni Gonzaga has love advice for Sam Milby – ABS-CBN News
MANILA – Toni Gonzaga did not mince words when asked to give Sam Milby advice on love.
It is no secret that Milby and Gonzaga, who is now married, had a “mutual understanding” that didn’t blossom into an official relationship in the past.
“Siguro do not be afraid to fall in love again,” Gonzaga said when they both appeared on “Tonight with Boy Abunda” to promote their movie “Mary, Marry Me.”
But when Milby quickly clarified that he isn’t actually afraid to fall in love again, Gonzaga had another advice on hand.
“The right person will come the least you expect it,” she told Milby who is her leading man in the 2018 Metro Manila Film Fest entry.
Appreciating Gonzaga’s wise words, Milby admitted he is actually at a point in his life where he is praying for the right person to come along.
“I have been praying about it. I am in my part of my life where I just fully trust God. I make specific [prayers] like I want to meet her this way. I think that’s important, to know that galing kay God talaga siya,” he said.
Meanwhile, Gonzaga described the girl who she thinks would be a perfect fit for Milby.
“Someone who shares the same faith na meron siya ngyaon. ‘Yung faith niya is so strong… someone who just understands him, accepts him, knows the kind of job that he has kasi ‘yung trabaho namin very demanding,” she said.
Although he is ready to finally enter into a relationship when the time comes, Milby said he is currently not dating anybody right now.
WATCH: Shahid Kapoor has this advice for Priyanka Chopra's husband Nick Jonas – Republic World
Hack:
- A promo of next week’s episode of ‘Koffee with Karan’ episode was shown which features Shahid Kapoor and Ishaan Khatter gracing the ‘controversial’ couch.
- However, the highlight of the promo was when host Karan Johar, who is known for his witty and funny comments, grabbed the opportunity to put Shahid in a spot. Karan asked Shahid if there’s a piece of advice he’d like to give to Nick and surprisingly his answer was affirmative as well as witty.
The popular talk show ‘Koffee with Karan”s latest episode saw cricketers Hardik Pandya and KL Rahul gracing the ‘koffee’ couch and giving out some fresh hot gossip about their personal lives. The episode was fun and refreshing to watch two Indian cricketers, and their candid side, for the first time on screen.
Towards the end of the episode, a promo of next week’s episode was shown which features Shahid Kapoor and Ishaan Khatter gracing the ‘controversial’ couch.
In the promo, the bromance between the duo is quite evident. The ‘Haider’ actor followed the footsteps of Arjun Kapoor, as he adorably teased Ishaan with Janhvi’s name. The promo shows Shahid pulling his younger brother’s legs while letting out some of Ishaan’s dating secrets.
In a tiny glimpse from the promo, Ishaan can be seen revealing Janhvi’s name on his phone which is saved as ‘Are those potatoes?’
However, the highlight of the promo was when host Karan Johar, who is known for his witty and funny comments, grabbed the opportunity to put Shahid in a spot. Karan asked Shahid if there’s a piece of advice he’d like to give to Nick and surprisingly his answer was affirmative as well as witty.
Shahid wasn’t too modest but very clever with his reply. He said, “Never back down buddy. You’re with the original Desi Girl.”
Here’s the video!
For the unversed, reportedly, rumours of Shahid and Priyanka dating while they were shooting ‘Kaminey’ were doing the rounds. However, the actors never confirmed their relationship on record.
Read: Kriti Sanon All Set To Grace The Couch On ‘Koffee With Karan’
From the promos, one can say that Shahid being his candid self and spilling the beans about Ishaan’s dating life, plus giving advice to Nick, this episode is surely going to be fun!
Meanwhile, the sixth season of ‘Koffee With Karan’ has already seen some dynamic pairings on the chat show, including Alia Bhatt and Deepika Padukone, Ranveer Singh and Akshay Kumar, Saif Ali Khan and daughter Sara Ali Khan, Arjun Kapoor and Janhvi Kapoor and Katrina Kaif and Varun Dhawan.
Ex who never believed in marriage is getting married – Detroit Free Press
Adapted from a recent online discussion.
Hi, Carolyn: I’m finding myself in one of those surreal stories where I invested years (six of them) in a relationship with someone who insisted he did not believe in marriage and finally ended things with me so he didn’t deprive me of what I wanted, only to wind up engaged to someone else about 10 seconds later. I found out through the grapevine – small town – and he contacted me shortly after that, knowing I would have heard, to ask if I wanted to meet up and talk over the circumstances behind his engagement.
Do I? Yes, I am burning with curiosity about how someone who found something negative to say about every marriage on earth is now willingly entering one of his own. But I am also afraid of how it will feel to hear itemized every reason I don’t measure up to Future Mrs. Ex.
Do I take him up on this offer, or let it lie?
– Sad
Let it lie. What he did is terribly painful. It also was very likely unintentional. Unwitting, too.
People who don’t want to do something find ways not to. When they think they should want to do it, or even wish they wanted to, they often start to rationalize. So, a person in a relationship with someone he doesn’t want to marry often will rationalize a bunch of reasons that Marriage: The Institution! is wrong for him.
It sounds kinder, too, to say to someone you love. “Marriage isn’t for me” – soft – vs. “You aren’t for me,” ouch. (Yes, we can love people we don’t want to marry.)
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Then, whaddaya know, he meets someone he does want to marry. And only then sees all the prior reasons as merely conjured up to explain what he couldn’t otherwise explain, because he never really understood it himself.
This is actually pretty common. Plus, it’s way better than pushing doubts aside and marrying anyway – since that eventually unravels anyway, only later and more painfully.
I know this is not going to be persuasive in the least right now, but maybe it’ll feel right to you down the road: It’s not even about you, really, or whether you “measure up.” It’s not about worthiness at all. It’s about fit. And you two, for whatever reason, didn’t fit.
You don’t need lunch to say this goodbye.
Hi, Carolyn: I was cooking and my phone was upstairs charging, and I missed several calls from my boyfriend. His car was towed. I didn’t notice the calls, and he got a friend to help.
He now says I’m not there for him, cannot be depended on, and that it’s a relationship red flag. I’m always present and usually answer his calls immediately – I’m not sure how to respond, and surprised he’s turning this one event into a symptom and symbol of our whole relationship. What to do?
– There for Him
“If innocently missing a call means I’m not dependable, then you’re right. My ability to ‘be there’ for anyone will always be imperfect and subject to random obstacles. I’ll miss you but you want something I can’t give, so breaking up is for the best.”
He’s being punitive and irrational. So, green flag: Hit the gas and go.
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