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Meghan Markle's dating bible and exes revealed

RULES GIRL: Meghan Markle follows The Rules.

Before she met her Prince Charming, the royal-to-be reportedly got dating tips from a self-help book called The Rules.

“Meghan used to quote The Rules all the time and really put it into practice with a number of her boyfriends,” a friend told The Sun.

The book, published in the ’90s, was a guide for women who want “marriage in the shortest time possible” and offered rules that a woman should follow to find her Mr. Right.

“She was never without a boyfriend for more than two or three months and always striving to have someone by her side,” the friend said.

The book, written by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider, was a bestseller when it was first published in 1995, but also upset many feminists with its old-fashioned advice.

Some of the tips from the controversial dating bible include:

  • Don’t talk to a man first (and don’t ask him to dance)
  • Don’t meet him halfway or go Dutch on a date
  • Don’t call him and rarely return his calls
  • Don’t see him more than once or twice a week

She reportedly took advice from the book while dating her ex-husband, film producer Trevor Engelson, 41.

Trevor Engelson attends The Hollywood Reporter’s annual Next Generation reception at My House on November 6, 2009 in Hollywood. (Frederick M. Brown/Getty Images)

MARKLE’S EXES: It seems Markle has some very diverse tastes in men.

Her exes reportedly include: an unnamed Argentinian business tycoon from her days as an intern at the U.S. embassy in Buenos Aires; college basketball star-turned coach Steve Lepore; actor and screenwriter Shaun Zaken; and Scary Movie actor and former porn star Simon Rex, 43.

Simon Rex arrives for the premiere of “Scary Movie 5” at ArcLight Cinemas Cinerama Dome on April 11, 2013 in Hollywood. (Michael Buckner/Getty Images)

The reason why she thought ex-husband Engelson was “The One”? It was his red hair.

A source told The Sun that during her stint at the U.S. embassy in Buenos Aires in 2003, the then-aspiring actress was told by a fortune teller that she would wed a man with “curly red hair.”

The clairvoyant obviously failed to mention that he’d be a prince.

ROYAL SWIMSUITS MAKE A SPLASH: Forget about commemorative china and shortbread cookies, the royal wedding merchandise bonanza is heading to the beach.

British online printing company Bags of Love says customers have been uploading the faces of the soon-to-be wed royal couple to personalized items on its website.

“Our favourite has to be the Harry and Meghan and Wills and Kate swimsuits,” a spokesman told Metro.

(Bags of Love photos)

“Nothing like printing the face of a Prince or Duchess on a swimming costume and rocking it proudly on the beach,” says the caption on its website.

While the swimsuits might seem a tad odd, they are not the most bizarre royal wedding keepsake. That honour goes to British condom maker Crown Jewels Heritage Condoms for its box of “Royal Wedding Souvenir Condoms.”

ROYAL WATCH: Meghan Markle had a dating bible and her exes revealed

RULES GIRL: Meghan Markle follows The Rules.

Before she met her Prince Charming, the royal-to-be reportedly got dating tips from a self-help book called The Rules.

“Meghan used to quote The Rules all the time and really put it into practice with a number of her boyfriends,” a friend told The Sun.

The book, published in the 90s, was a guide for women who want “marriage in the shortest time possible” and offered rules that a woman should follow to find her Mr. Right.

“She was never without a boyfriend for more than two or three months and always striving to have someone by her side,” the friend said.

The book, written by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider, was a bestseller when it was first published in 1995, but also upset many feminists with its old-fashioned advice.

Some of the tips from the controversial dating bible include:

  • Don’t talk to a man first (and don’t ask him to dance)
  • Don’t meet him halfway or go Dutch on a date
  • Don’t call him and rarely return his calls
  • Don’t see him more than once or twice a week

She reportedly took advice from the book while dating her ex-husband, film producer Trevor Engelson, 41,

Trevor Engelson attends The Hollywood Reporter’s annual Next Generation reception at My House on November 6, 2009 in Hollywood. (Frederick M. Brown/Getty Images)

MARKLE’S EXES: It seems Markle has some very diverse tastes in men.

Her exes reportedly include: an unnamed Argentinian business tycoon from her days as an intern at the U.S. embassy in Buenos Aires; college basketball star-turned coach Steve Lepore; actor and screenwriter Shaun Zaken; and Scary Movie actor and former porn star Simon Rex, 43.

Simon Rex arrives for the premiere of “Scary Movie 5” at ArcLight Cinemas Cinerama Dome on April 11, 2013 in Hollywood. (Michael Buckner/Getty Images)

The reason why she thought ex-husband Engelson was “The One”? It was his red hair.

A source told The Sun that during her stint at the U.S. embassy in Buenos Aires in 2003, the then-aspiring actress was told by a fortune teller that she would wed a man with “curly red hair.”

The clairvoyant obviously failed to mention that he’d be a prince.

ROYAL SWIMSUITS MAKE A SPLASH: Forget about commemorative china and shortbread cookies, the royal wedding merchandise bonanza is heading to the beach.

British online printing company Bags of Love says customers have been uploading the faces of the soon-to-be wed royal couple to personalized items on its website.

“Our favourite has to be the Harry and Meghan and Wills and Kate swimsuits,” a spokesman told Metro.

(Bags of Love photos)

“Nothing like printing the face of a Prince or Duchess on a swimming costume and rocking it proudly on the beach,” says the caption on its website.

While the swimsuits might seem a tad odd, they are not the most bizarre royal wedding keepsake. That honour goes to British condom maker Crown Jewels Heritage Condoms for its box of “Royal Wedding Souvenir Condoms.”

Introducing: Dakota Johnson & Chris Martin, Legit Couple

“I adore him,” Griffith told People when asked about her daughter’s relationship with the Coldplay singer, who consciously uncoupled from Gwyneth Paltrow. “But,” Griffith then said, “she is very private about her life and I respect that.” Well, it seems Griffith respects Johnson’s privacy enough to not give too much detail about her relationship — she also apparently doesn’t give her any dating advice. But not enough respect to let her daughter be the one to confirm the celebrity coupling.

The Dating Game

May 11, 201809:44 AM


Joie d’Eve

Living, loving, laughing, and learning in the new New Orleans

Hypothetical advice for young romantics

Eve Crawford Peyton

I don’t want to say Ruby has gotten increasingly private as she’s gotten older as that is not strictly true. 

She has, in fact, started to develop her own social media presence, albeit in a very limited, locked-down way, as I’ve allowed her to get an Instagram account and join the online Google groups and group chats for her fifth grade class.

(I check all of these things frequently. The other day, she indignantly asked me why I got to read her texts but she didn’t get to read my texts, and I immediately responded, “Because I pay the cell phone bill, that’s why.” I have become that mom.)

But what she has become more critical of – which I understand and support – is her privacy via what I share about her here and on my own social media accounts.

I’ve always tried to be aware of that, even before she was able to read any of it. I never wanted to post anything too personal or embarrassing about her. Now that she is old enough to care, I get her approval before I write a single word, post a single picture.

And so I am not going to disclose whether she is starting to go to dances or out to the movies with boys … but I am finding myself revisiting some of the old dating advice I was given – both by my parents and by my friends – only to find some of it still spot-on and some of it completely antiquated.

Among these dating rules:

•Never take too long to do your hair and makeup. Boys love a girl who can be ready to go in 10 minutes.

•Eat two crackers before you go out to stop your stomach from growling.

•If the boy opens your car door, make sure to lean over and open his for him.

•Never order either the most expensive or least expensive item on the menu.

•Always bring along your own money, including a quarter for the pay phone.

•Be sure you have cab fare.

•Don’t order anything too messy – pasta or soup – or garlicky or that might get caught in your teeth.

•Leave at least one bite of food on your plate, even if you’re still hungry.

•Keep an eye on how much you’re drinking.

•Be yourself – and if it’s awkward, just acknowledge it and joke about it.

As I said, some of this is obsolete now – remote unlocking doors and cell phones have rendered a lot of the list moot – and some is sort of sexist – who cares if your stomach growls or if you get spaghetti sauce on your chin! Order what you like, and eat until you’re full! Some of it is still good advice, like having your own money and your own way home, like not drinking too much with someone you don’t know that well (Ruby is not drinking yet at all, of course, but as those PSAs tell me, it’s never too young to start talking about it.) Some advice I’d give Ruby now wasn’t relevant at all when I was first dating – I would certainly advise her that being on her phone texting constantly is rude and not acceptable, which would have seemed like gibberish to me back in 1993.

The basic principles are the same, though: Be nice, be courteous, be careful, be independent.

Those are the things that I hope always apply, no matter how much technology changes.

What dating advice do you remember getting? And what advice would you give now?