Relationships Talk

Adrienne Bailon sat down with OKMagazine.com to share her tips on how to find love after heartbreak. One of her biggest tips? “I think the key is, one, don’t rush it! You can’t force things. I would have never planned it. I wouldn’t have been like, ‘Oh, and my friend that I’ve had for three years — I’m now suddenly going to marry him,’” she said of her own relationship with Israel Houghton.

The Real host also dished about a special project she’s been working on. Adrienne recently debuted her jewelry line called XIXI Faith And Familia. Her signature pendant necklaces “Praying Hands” and “Faith & Familia” are already sold out, and every piece in the collection is under $50.

Watch the video above to see Adrienne’s advice for finding love! 

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Pisces

Birthday: February 12-March 20

Type: Mutable water sign

Key words: Dreamy, playful, emotional, artistic, fickle

Love anthem: “In My Feelings” – Drake

Famous Pisces men: Justin Bieber, Trever Noah, Oscar Isaac, Stephen Curry, Fred Rogers, Jon Hamm, Josh Groban, Chris Martin, Ansel Elgort

Best matches:

Pisces is such an idealistic and romantic sign, so it’s only natural that Libra is a perfect match! Libra is ruled by Venus, planet of beauty, love, and pleasure, and Libras are optimistic and open-minded, just like Pisces. Sagittarius is another great match for Pisces! Both need to have a sense of freedom, so giving each other space isn’t a problem.

A man born under the Pisces constellation, the final sign of the Zodiac, is a total dreamboat. He’s flirtatious, charming, and romantic, and, being a water sign, he’s also introverted and emotional—the most emotional sign of all, to be precise. His sign is also classified as mutable, meaning he’s adaptable and changeable. This is most reflected in his ever-shifting moods–he has a stream of emotions that never slows down, and an immense imagination. He’s an idealist and is unapologetic about being affectionate, but when his mood is on a down swing, it can be tough to be around him. However, when he’s back to his usual sweet self, you’re on cloud nine with him!

His sign is ruled by Neptune, the planet of dreams, illusions, and in-depth emotional connections. This is the root of his fantastical imagination and his romantic, compassionate nature, as well as his natural intuition. He’s a true empath, picking up on others’ emotions and experiencing them just as strongly, whether he wants to or not. So when you’re having an off day, he knows it and immediately swoops in to cheer you up. His sign is also ruled by Jupiter, the planet of abundance and generosity, explaining his enormous range of emotions as well as his natural ability to provide care and support for others. Nine times out of ten, if you’re happy, he’s happy, so he naturally wants to make sure your mood is always up.

His sign is named after the constellation of the Fish, which is symbolic of many of his behaviors. He floats through life without a care, and sometimes gets caught up in a current of feelings, but he typically navigates the world in a simple, slow-moving manner. He’s very in-tune with the underflowing emotional energy wherever he is, and rapidly swims upstream when he feels threatened or overwhelmed, which is a life-saver when it comes to disagreements. He’ll work to get through the conflict peacefully, preferring to forgive and forget rather than let an argument cause a divide between the two of you.

Your starry-eyed Pisces man lives with his head in the clouds, constantly daydreaming his own little world where everything is calm, pleasant, and romantic. He looks at you and sees a soul mate. He wouldn’t date anyone unless he felt like they were his perfect match, because he demands that his real life relationships are just as idealistic as the fantasy he’s constantly in. He’s totally subjective and driven by vague ideas and fantasies about love. When it comes to life in the bedroom, the physical act of sex is just a part of the spiritual, poetic bond he’s really after.

His abundance of romantic ideas and lovey emotions is swell and all, but making a relationship work takes more than just good intentions! His emotions rule his life so heavily that you can rule out using logic, reason, or rationale to get in touch with him. Mercury, planet of intellectual thoughts and communication, is actually considered to be detrimental in Pisces, so verbalizing his thoughts and feelings isn’t easy at all. That, all on top of his sign being ruled by hazy, foggy Neptune can lead to serious conflict. This little fish swims tends to swim away the second someone raises their voice or takes a sharp tone with him, which contributes to his problematic escapist reputation.

As the Zodiac’s most subjective sign, he lives life strictly on his own terms. He’s impossible to pin down and slips right through your fingers if you try to grab a hold of him. Emotional boundaries are hard to set and enforce with him because his need for space, intimacy, affection, or alone time all shift and change in tandem with his ever-morphing mood. In a relationship, his giant heart overflows with affection and adoration for you, but his impossibly-high standards for a relationship to always be easy and perfect causes inevitable issues.

Date a Pisces if you can forgive his lack of schedules and planning in exchange for impromptu romantic gestures. He prefers to express himself with feelings and gestures rather than thinking over and talking about things, so if you aren’t emotionally compatible, chances of staying together are slim—not everyone is capable of the openness that he requires. He’s very sensitive, and it’s in his nature to vanish for alone time when he’s feeling overwhelmed, then return super needy. From start to finish, your relationship with him will be a wild ride. If you can’t swim through his downpour of feelings, you might find yourself drowning. Without a doubt, you’ll be more in touch with your emotions after getting with a Pisces!

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