How To Be Attractive on a Date – The Good Men Project

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A lot of dating advice suggests that, to be attractive, we should focus on our looks, our clothes and our ability to choose a good venue.

The goal can be stated simply enough: the overwhelming priority, when on a date with someone we like, is to persuade them to like us back. But the simplicity of the mission masks the complexity required to achieve it. Typically, the advice focuses on externals: what to wear, when to unfurl a napkin, what to order… But such counsel, however well-meaning, is at odds with what we ourselves know about attraction: that it is profoundly focused on psychology.

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