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Sweet treat! Love Island Australia's Natasha Cherie flaunts her busty surgically-enhanced cleavage as she enjoys an …

Sweet treat! Love Island Australia’s Natasha Cherie flaunts her busty surgically-enhanced cleavage as she enjoys an ice cream

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She was booted from the Spanish villa weeks before Love Island Australia crowned its inagural winning couple, Tayla Damir and Grant Crapp.

But Natasha Cherie, 24, hasn’t let her loveless exit get her down. 

This week, the busty reality star was all smiles as she soaked up the sun in a cleavage-baring bikini with an ice cream in hand.

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Sweet treat! Love Island Australia's Natasha Cherie flaunts her busty surgically-enhanced cleavage as she enjoys an ice cream

Sweet treat! Love Island Australia’s Natasha Cherie flaunts her busty surgically-enhanced cleavage as she enjoys an ice cream

Natasha appeared to be enjoying a chocolate scoop as she took a selfie flaunting her ample assets in a sizzling red swimsuit. 

Former co-star Mac commented ‘stunner’ on the picture, while her former villa bestie Erin wrote: ‘Miss you so much!!’ 

Erin, who placed runner-up on the reality show with boyfriend Eden Dally, regularly gave Tash advice on dating.

Looking for her Captain! While on the series, Natasha joked that she was looking for a boyfriend who owned a boat

Looking for her Captain! While on the series, Natasha joked that she was looking for a boyfriend who owned a boat

Looking for her Captain! While on the series, Natasha joked that she was looking for a boyfriend who owned a boat

Fans were left in stitches when Erin, 23, gave her busty gal pal some ridiculous tips to get the attention of hunky new intruder, John James Parton.

As the two blondes, who called themselves the ‘silicone sisters’, lounged on sun sofas by the pool, they discussed how Natasha could snare the resident Adonis. 

'Go jump on the trampoline with your tits!': Love Island¿s Erin Barnett gives 'silicone sister' Natasha Cherie outrageous dating advice 

'Go jump on the trampoline with your tits!': Love Island¿s Erin Barnett gives 'silicone sister' Natasha Cherie outrageous dating advice 

‘Go jump on the trampoline with your tits!’: Love Island’s Erin Barnett gives ‘silicone sister’ Natasha Cherie outrageous dating advice 

Watching their fellow cast members work out, the ladies could not help but comment on the way Millie used her body to get the 32-year-old stud’s attention. 

After witnessing the doggy daycare worker’s flirty display, Erin came up with the perfect solution, telling her busty bestie to ‘Go jump on the trampoline with your tits!’

Breaking into a fit of giggles, Natasha laughed off the saucy suggestion, later admitting in the confessional booth that she would never openly use her body to compete against her rivals.

‘I’m the type of girl, who, if I see somebody I’m attracted to, I kind of back away and see if they come up to me,’ she confessed.

Breast advice! After witnessing the doggy daycare worker's flirty display, Erin came up with the perfect solution, telling her busty bestie to 'Go jump on the trampoline with your tits!' 

Breast advice! After witnessing the doggy daycare worker's flirty display, Erin came up with the perfect solution, telling her busty bestie to 'Go jump on the trampoline with your tits!' 

Breast advice! After witnessing the doggy daycare worker’s flirty display, Erin came up with the perfect solution, telling her busty bestie to ‘Go jump on the trampoline with your tits!’ 

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HEART ADVICE: My friend is dating my ex

By MAURICE MATHEKA
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My ex of five years is in love with my best friend and I don’t know how to handle it. She recently confessed to me that they have been seeing each other behind my back for the past six months. I know it has been five years since we broke up, and I have moved on and I’m now engaged to someone else, but I still feel very angry about it. I don’t want my past playing any part in my present life. My wedding is coming up soon as she is my best maid, but I am afraid she will bring my ex to the wedding. Should I break up with her? Tell her to break up with him? Please advise.

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Five years is a long time. Your ex isn’t to blame for finding new love with your friend. You decided to move on and you really need to truly move on and erase him from your mind now that you are just about to get married otherwise you might find yourself ruining your current relationship due to him. Furthermore, your happiness comes first and if you think you can’t stand seeing your best friend dating your ex, you’d do yourself more good than harm by bringing your friendship to an end because I doubt if she can leave him for the sake of your friendship. Sorry girl. Nelson Malemo, via email.

You should have forgotten everything that happened five years ago by now. I understand that you are now engaged; I wonder what connection you have with your ex. If he is willing to attend your wedding don’t hinder him. It is not your place to get them to break up. Forget the past and concrete on your wedding. Timothy Muthama, via email.

You seem to have unfinished business with your ex-boyfriend, hence the reason you feel angry that your friend is associating with him. You need to confront your feelings about him. For a healthy marriage to flourish, you need to forget this guy and concentrate on your husband. You should not be bothered whether he attends your wedding or not. Let him come and witness that you are taken! Don’t allow jealousy to haunt your life. Let the guy go! John Wambugu via email.

Is nice you call him your ex, to mean you left each other and both of you moved on. Your feelings for your ex are there because of memories. Focus on your future relationship. Be positive and don’t bring your past to your future.

Kevin Owino, Nakuru.

EXPERT ADVICE

Maurice Matheka, a relationship counsellor answers:

As you have stated, you broke up five years ago and you are soon to get married. In my opinion you are allowing the scenario to work you up for no reason. You moved on and so did he, but in this case with your friend, such is life and I don’t see your ex negatively impacting your wedding or your life thereafter. Your friend might not invite him and if anything, you can request her not to have him there as respect to you. Eliminating your best maid at this point is unnecessary and would not be a sign of friendship. She may have found her true love… who knows? Perhaps wish her happiness; that is the mature thing to do. Unless you have unsolved feelings which would question your dedication to your current partner, you need only concentrate on planning and enjoying your wedding day.

NEXT WEEK’S DILEMMA

I have a crush on a certain man and I told him what I feel for him. On the other hand, I’ve got a man who loves me. I just don’t feel him at all. I’m told love grows with time. I have been so tempted to agree to date this other guy who loves me but still I’ve got feelings for my crush. The crush has not been online for quite a while and so he has not yet seen my message on WhatsApp. The guy who loves me is good; I love the fact that I’m his first priority and he goes by what I say, and does what I tell him to do, but still my crush is in my heart. What should I do?

What To Put In Your Dating App Bio If You Want A Relationship & Need To Make That Clear

Dating in 2018 gets a bad rap. Using app algorithms to find human connection is tricky, and “human connection,” means different things to different people. My dad recently admitted to me that he thought dating apps were like the now-defunct Craiglist “Personal Ads” page, specifically, the “Seeking Casual Sex” portion. (Which is why he’d looked so horrified any time my brother or I mentioned using them.) Different people use dating apps in different ways, depending on what they’re looking for. So what do you put on your dating app bio if you want a relationship?

I co-host a podcast about dating, and our listeners write in about dating qualms, bad date stories, and more. With every email about anxious overthinking, blatant ghosting, or a situationship troubles, there seems to be one piece of advice that applies to all situations: make sure you communicate what you want.

Or what I like to call, “Say it, don’t spray it.” Don’t drop hints or send angsty texts because you want more than you have from the person you’re “seeing” — just tell them what you want. It’s scary AF, but it will save you time and tears in the long run. If there’s one piece of relationship advice I could go back and give my recently graduated, 21-year-old self, it would be to ask for what I want.

This is why I don’t think it’s a bad idea to make it clear from the get-go that you’re not looking for a casual hookup on your dating app bio. Just say it! However, I have to admit that when I read a profile that says “Serious relationships only,” I feel a weird pressure to not disappoint a stranger who I haven’t even been on one date with — eek!

My general philosophy when it comes to online dating is to take it one date at a time, and to try not to expect to find the love of your life on a first date. (That’s usually just physical chemistry anyways.) Putting pressure on yourself to have a sixth sense for knowing what a person will be like in person after messaging them on an app for a while is all too much, and bound to lead to disappointment.

So while it’s incredibly important to communicate what you want early in a relationship, if you’re going to be explicit and put what you are looking for on your dating app profile, keep it light. Rather than writing, “I’m looking for marriage in the next three to five years,” try something with a sense of humor like, “I’m DTFR, Down To Find A Relationship.”

I must admit that reclaiming “DTF” was entirely inspired by comic genius Nicole Byer. She talks about her dating app profile on her podcast “Why Won’t You Date Me?” and her profile includes, “I’m DTF… Down To Figure Skate.” What I like about the “DTFR” version of Byer’s line, is that it’s legitimately funny, but still gets the point across — you’re not looking for a casual fling, you’re actually using the apps to hopefully find your person.

So, if you’re swiping and on the apps looking for a relationship, it’s really smart to make that clear early on. Throwing that out there on your dating profile is a great way to cut through all of the BS you’re not interested in, but you can also wait and mention that after you see how the first date actually goes.

And if you’re going to put “Looking for a relationship,” on your profile? Keep it fun. I highly recommend, “I’m DTFR, Down To Find A Relationship,” but I haven’t had a chance to try it out yet. So please, if you give it a go, let me know how it works out. Happy dating!

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What in the world is 'gatsbying'? 5 confusing AF dating terms explained

You might consider yourself a bit of a dating expert. You’ve got your Bumble intro line down and your Tinder bio has been reviewed by at least three friends. You know which emoji to use and when. You’ve mastered the perfect ‘woke-up-like-this’ selfie. This ain’t your first time at the rodeo.

This is exactly what I thought when I saw a recent email from eHarmony. Dating in the modern world, the subject line screamed, the millennial terms you’ve never heard of.

Pur-lease, I thought. Do I look like some kind of amateur? I’ve been on more blind dates than most people have had hot dinners (yes, I’m aware how depressing that sentence is, thank you). I’m pretty sure whatever you’ve got, eHarmony, I’ve already heard about it, seen it happen, and then bitched to my friends about it over cocktails.

Oh how wrong I was. Although there were a few I was sadly familiar with, there were some that I genuinely had never heard of.

So without further ado, for your education and amusement, I present our comprehensive list of millennial dating terms.

1. Gatsbying

This term was coined by Aussie model Matilda Dods and is something we have without a doubt all been guilty of. If you’re confused I’d ask you to cast your mind back to English class and remember all those opulent parties Gatsby threw just to get Daisy’s attention. Now replace party with Instagram story and you’ve got the idea. This is for every social media post you’ve made just in case that special someone is watching.

2. Negging

This is that guy that messages you on Tinder saying he’s usually only into blondes but for you he’s willing to make an exception. You’re kind of offended but also a little flattered. Like it or not, your interest is piqued. This is negging, my friend. And it’s more common than you think with 25 per cent of respondents to eHarmony’s survey revealing that they had recently been negged.

3. Bread crumbing

This is another one we’re all guilty of. If you think you’re exempt then ask yourself if you’ve ever sent a potential lovely a text just to let them know you’re thinking of them. Just a little something to keep them interested? Yeah I thought so.

4. Benching

This is another extremely common one. Hands up if this scenario sounds familiar: you’ve been seeing someone for a while but you’re not anything official. You don’t talk all the time, but get together sometimes to have fun. Every time you think it’s finally played itself out, another text magically appears. Congratulations, you’ve officially been benched. Like 49 per cent of survey respondents under the age of 34, you’re being kept hanging just in case.

5. Sneating

Okay this is one that I’ve 100% done. You know when you’re chatting with someone and you’re not really feeling it but then they suggest a date at your favourite restaurant? You know this isn’t going anywhere but you also really want the vegan spaghetti. This is sneating and apparently girls are way more guilty of it than guys.

Plus, zombie-ing

So you know what ghosting is. Well zombie-ing is the next level. It’s the person that randomly disappeared a year ago, only to slide back into your DM’s one night to ask how you’re doing. As with actual Zombies, proceed with caution.

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