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New York Times Wants Spoiler Advice After Spoiling Batman Wedding
The age of the internet has made keeping secrets about exciting developments in pop culture nearly impossible, though sometimes spoilers for highly-anticipated reveals emerge in unexpected ways. Most recently, The New York Times revealed a key element of the upcoming marriage between Batman and Catwoman, immediately igniting ire towards the publication. In the wake of the bad press, the outlet is now asking advice on how to report on similar events in the future.
Hitting shelves on Wednesday is Batman #50, which is set to be a defining moment in the Dark Knight’s lore. Over the weekend, The New York Times shared a piece which essentially outlined the fate of the relationship and offered minute details about how the issue played out. Additionally, the article’s headline gave away the ending without having to read the story itself.
“What responsibility, if any, do journalists have not to spoil plots for our readers? What is the role of a headline or news alert for a story that contains such a secret?” The Times questions.
The goal of the original article wasn’t meant to give away the ending to intentionally spoil the surprise, but wanted to shed light on the nearly 80-year history between Bruce Wayne and Selina Kyle. In some ways, this made the article even more disappointing, as fans have waited decades to get answers about the couple’s tumultuous relationship.
“We heard the criticism, and we’re hoping to open this up for a wider discussion with our readers. Do you have questions for [writer] George [Gene Gustines] or LeAnn Wilcox, an editor in Styles, about the feature or the headline?” the outlet asks. “How do you think pieces that contain spoilers should be handled by news organizations? Did you enjoy hearing the Batman-Catwoman news days early?”
Throughout the paper’s more than 160-year legacy, it has prided itself on delivering readers late-breaking news, finding itself in an interesting situation when their attempts to convey factual information resulted in the “spoiling” of a plot point. Complicating matters further is that, rather than a passing message that hinted at the issue’s final moments, the events of the story were laid out explicitly.
Finding the balance between delivering news while not spoiling a piece of fiction can be difficult to navigate, as any film-related website could tell you, with this most recent occurrence bringing a new and unexpected response to the prestigious organization.
You can find out what happens in Batman #50 when it hits stores on Wednesday.
What would your advice be to The New York Times? Let us know in the comments below!
[H/T The New York Times]
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Dear Abby: Teens kept in the dark about dad's affair
DEAR ABBY: My husband of 20 years has blindsided me by announcing he’s leaving. Come to find out he’s “in love” with a co-worker and thinks they are soul mates. Our close friends and family know about the affair (and are dismayed), but our teenaged kids don’t. He told them we simply grew apart.
His suddenly leaving with no attempt to work on the marriage sends a confusing message. Is it best the kids don’t know about her, or will it hurt them more if they find out later? How do I talk to them about the commitment of marriage without criticizing him, and does that include protecting his lie? – CONFUSED IN CALIFORNIA
DEAR CONFUSED: Your children are teenagers. Teenagers today are very wise in the ways of the world. They are also observant; when they visit their father at his place, they will draw their own conclusions.
As to talking to them about the commitment of marriage, refrain from doing it when you are emotional, and leave out any reference to their father and his “soul mate” unless they bring it up. You have my sympathy.
DEAR ABBY: I’m talking with a guy who’s in prison. He has eight months before he gets out. Do you think it’s wrong for me to keep talking with him? Is it wrong to date someone in prison? I go visit him. He wants to marry me when he gets out. He talks about how God has changed his life since he’s been in prison. – WONDERING IN THE EAST
DEAR WONDERING: While it is possible to write to, talk to and visit someone who is in prison, it is not possible to “date” someone who is locked behind bars. While it is not wrong to talk to him, please understand that when he is released, his circumstances will be different.
Rather than talking about marriage at this point, he should be thinking about how he will find a job and reintegrate himself into the real world. You should not jump into a lifetime commitment with him until he has done that. God may have changed his life while he has been in prison, but that doesn’t mean the task is done. He will have to continue to work on changing his life himself.
DEAR ABBY: Every year in my neighborhood, “lost dog” signs appear the day after the Fourth of July. Would you please print a reminder to dog owners that noise from fireworks can cause pets to become so frightened they bolt from home and become lost. Keep your pets inside anytime you can hear fireworks.
On the Fourth, which is noisy all day, when my dogs have to go out, I go out WITH them (even though I have a fenced yard). I want to be able to see them every second. Better safe than sorry. – PET LOVER IN BARNHART, MISSOURI
DEAR PET LOVER: I’m sure my readers will be grateful for your timely reminder. And while we’re on the subject of lost pets, this would be a good time to ensure that your dog (or cat) is properly identified with a microchip or ID tag in case it does manage to get away from you.
