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Amazon CEO Jeff Bezos won't return Gwyneth Paltrow's email – Quartz

Gwyneth Paltrow is a famous person, which means her success rate when asking other famous people for favors is typically much higher than an ordinary person’s might be. When Paltrow launched a podcast her friend Oprah Winfrey agreed to be her first guest; when she got married, Jerry Seinfeld and his wife hosted her rehearsal dinner. And when she needs advice on running Goop, her ever-expanding lifestyle empire, she calls Disney CEO Bob Iger (and Oprah, obviously).

Yet one person remains indifferent to Paltrow’s entreaties: Amazon founder and CEO Jeff Bezos.

“I’ve emailed him,” Paltrow said in a recent Wall Street Journal Magazine profile. “He won’t email back.” (According to the magazine, a Bezos spokesperson declined to comment.)

Paltrow shouldn’t take this too personally. Bezos receives an overwhelming amount of email, especially since he has always publicized his Amazon email address (jeff@amazon.com). Though he doesn’t respond to them personally, Bezos claims to read most of the customer complaints that come to his inbox. Those he deems worthy of follow-up get forwarded to the relevant manager with a message consisting of a single character—“?”—which translates in Bezos-speak to “figure out what this is about and fix it.”

As The Cut highlighted, Paltrow’s admiration for Bezos dates back to at least February, when she told the Wall Street Journal that the Amazon CEO was the person she would most like to have dinner with.

“I just have lots of questions for him,” she said at the time. “Does he want to be the boss of the whole world or is there a beautiful, poetic strategy for the consumer? I’m totally fascinated—he’s an enigma.”

Paltrow is far from the only A-lister willing to make cold calls. Kobe Bryant and Alex Rodriguez have used the tactic to land meetings with everyone from Oprah to Warren Buffett. To increase her chances of a response, Paltrow should follow the advice of organizational psychologist (and Goop podcast guest) Adam Grant, whose six tips for getting important people to respond to one’s emails include a perfect subject line, and “highlighting uncommon commonalities,” and expressions of gratitude—a subject Paltrow’s Goop website covers in abundance.

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Margaret Molster, Marvin Bush Wife: 5 Fast Facts to Know – Heavy.com

Getty Marvin Bush with his wife and children. His wife’s name is Margaret Bush.

Marvin Bush, the son of the late President George H.W. Bush and his wife Barbara Bush, is married to Margaret Conway Molster, his college sweetheart, and theirs is a long-term marriage.

George H.W. Bush and Barbara Bush had five children together, of which Marvin was the youngest son. The Bush children are George W., Robin, Jeb, Neil, Marvin and Dorothy. You can see a Bush family tree here.

Here’s what you need to know:


1. Marvin Bush & Margaret Molster Married in 1981

Marvin and Margaret Bush have been married for decades. According to ABC 13, they were married in 1981.

According to the book, Barbara Bush: Matriarch of Dynasty by Pamela Kilian, Marvin Bush went to college at the University of Virginia in Charlottesville, and that’s where he met Margaret Molster, who was also a student there.

“I was fairly young, twenty-four, and I wanted to feel comfortable and get some reassurance with what I was planning to do,” the book quotes him as saying, explaining that he asked his parents for advice. “They said I’d better marry Margaret because the chances were slim I’d find someone as special again. That turned out to be excellent advice.”

According to her bio on Maine Health, Margaret Bush “was born and raised in Richmond, Va., where she attended St. Catherine’s School and the University of Virginia. She met her future husband, Marvin, at the university and they were married after graduation in 1981. Bush spent 13 years as a teacher, the first at The Park School in Brookline, Mass., then 12 years in Alexandria, Va.”

Marvin Bush is “co-founder and a managing partner of Winston Partners, a Virginia-based investment firm, and principal at the George W. Bush Presidential Library,” the news site reports.


2. Margaret Bush Turned to Adoption Due to Ovarian Cancer

Marvin Bush and his wife Margaret adopted two children. You can see a photo of Margaret and Marvin Bush here. According to the Caller Times, Marvin and Margaret Bush’s children are named Charles Walker Bush and Marshall Bush.

According to the Kilian book, Margaret, a trained teacher, could not have children because she had ovarian cancer, which is why Marvin and Margaret Bush turned to adoption. That was a “childhood illness” according to the book.

Margaret is involved in charity work in the healthcare arena. “Bush’s daughter-in-law, Margaret Bush, is the wife of Marvin Bush, President Bush and Barbara Bush’s youngest son. She is a member of the Maine Medical Center Board of Trustees, carrying on the legacy of family support and involvement with the hospital,” reads a press release from Maine Health.

Their daughter Marshall Bush told Parade Magazine that both children were treated exactly the same as other Bush grandchildren. “You would never know. We have never, not for one second, been treated any differently, and that’s been pretty awesome. My grandparents have been very involved with the agency we came from, down in Fort Worth,” she told Parade.

Marshall Bush told Good Morning America, “As crazy as it sounds, it was very normal for me because when I was born he was in the vice president’s house, and then from about 3 to 7 [year old], he was in the White House. So, really to me, and again it’s completely bizarre, but the White House was just my grandfather’s house, my grandparents’ house, where they lived and where I went and hung out with them, went swimming in their pool and played with their dogs.”


3. Marvin & Margaret Bush’s Daughter Marshall Bush Was With Her Grandfather When He Died

Marshall Bush was at her grandfather’s side when he passed away, as she recounted to the Today Show.

“It was incredibly peaceful and sweet — beyond sweet. A bunch of our family and best family friends were there and everyone was touching him and holding him,” she told TODAY. “We just wanted to make sure that he knew that we loved him as much as he loved us. And making sure he wasn’t alone and he was comforted. It was just beautiful. It really was beautiful.”

Marshall Bush also told Today that she feels comforted by the fact that George H.W. Bush is now back together with Barbara Bush.

The Maine Health bio says Margaret Bush “made a career change and has become an actress on stage, in film, and on television. She also has a floral design business.”

She has served on numerous boards, “including The National Children’s Museum, Prevent Cancer Foundation, St. Catherine’s Alumnae, and Very Special Arts. For many years, Margaret has spoken on behalf of The Gladney Center, the adoption agency where her children were born. Margaret has a passion for pediatric patients and has visited and read to patients at The Barbara Bush Children’s Hospital at Maine Medical Center, named for her mother-in-law,” the Maine Health bio says.


4. Marvin & Margaret Bush Have a Son Who Served in the U.S. Military

Marvin and Margaret Conway Molster also have a son named Charles Walker Bush. He was born in 1989 and was adopted by the pair.

According to The List, Charles Walker Bush has served in the U.S. Armed Forces. Parade Magazine reported in 2012 that Charles Walker Bush was in the U.S. Marines.

In a now-deleted Instagram post, he offered tribute to his grandfather on a previous birthday, the site reports, writing, “Happy 91st Birthday…If I can grow up to be even half the man that he is, then I’ll have done it right.”

Charles Walker Bush was also accused of sharing a controversial post on Instagram that read “Just to p*** the snowflakes off. Have fun trying to take them. #assaultisaverbnotanadjective #ar15 #marchforourlives.” The post included a picture of automatic rifles.

He was a pallbearer for his grandmother.


5. Marvin & Margaret Bush Live in Luxury Homes But Try to Stay Low Key

Marvin Bush has explained that he and his wife prefer to stay off the radar. He told the Baltimore Sun, “We don’t want to be socialites. We just want to live a normal life.”

He added to the newspaper, “I would never run for political office. I don’t have the patience for it that my father does . . . I also know the effect it has on your family.”

Margaret and Marvin Bush have made several moves over recent years and live in luxury digs.

According to Curbed DC, they “were living in a $2.5M three-bedroom condo for the past two years in one of Arlington’s most expensive apartment buildings but last November they closed on a 3 bed, 4.5 bath for $3.8M.”

The site describes that house as having a private elevator and two walk-in closets in the master bedroom. A 2010 article in The Washington Post had said the Marvin Bush family wanted to downsize and they also have a house in Florida. “George W. Bush’s low-profile baby brother and his wife just listed their Beaux-Arts Colonial (four bedrooms, five baths, sunroom, guesthouse) in Alexandria near Belle Haven Country Club,” that article reported of the couple’s first move.

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9 Signs That Your Kids Are Harming Your Marriage – Fatherly

Kids are a joy. Our lives are made infinitely better by their presence. Ha ha ha! Sorry, we couldn’t keep a straight face there. Listen: we love our kids more than anything and many parts of our lives are infinitely better. Other parts, however, well…not so much. Kids are little incendiary grenades that burn down all sorts of previously constructed dynamics.

Take your relationship. After kids, marriage is different. It just is. Convince yourself this won’t be — or isn’t — the case and you’re in for a world of trouble. It’s simple math: kids require time and that time is subtracted from other places. Understand this, however, and you can adapt, stay nimble. That said, there are several major ways, which you’ll see below, that kids can not just disrupt but also harm a marriage. Chances are, we’re all guilty of some of these infractions. That’s okay (kids, man). It’s how we react and adapt to them after we recognize them that matters. 

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They’re the Only Priority

If you’re giving every second of every day to your kids, what do you think is going to be left over when day is done? Not much. Parenting is a job, yes, but that doesn’t mean it always has to feel like it. You need to take a step back and figure out how you can lighten the load and give back to both yourself and your partner. Are there family members you can ask to pitch in and watch the kids? Is there a neighbor you trust who you can carpool with to give you a morning off? Can you perform a little activity triage and figure out which activities can be cut from the calendar? “Your kids will be just fine if they have a night off,” says sexologist Dr. Jess O’Reilly, “and you’ll likely find that the reprieve from a busy schedule will give you a chance to catch up on rest and self-care.”

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They’re the Heads of the Household

We all want to make our kids happy, but there comes a point where that all that energy you’re pouring into keeping your kids smiling is depleting energy from yourself. Letting your kids rule the roost will create division in the household and will also lead to long-term behavior problems with your kids. Accept that you’re not perfect and that your kid will survive if things aren’t always exactly the way they like it. “Every parent makes mistakes,” says Caleb Backe, a wellness expert with Maple Holistics, “and it’s not the end of the world if you forget to send your child dressed in red on ‘red day.’”

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They Divide You

Kids are manipulative little creatures. And if they have any sense that one parent can be more easily swayed than the other, then they’ll lean on that parent until they break. Over time, this will wear down the bond between you and your spouse. You have to keep your wits about you and present a united front to your children. If not, cracks in the armor will be exploited very quickly. “My mother used to say to me, ‘I am not your friend, I am your mother,’ says relationship expert Bonnie Winston. “She would not allow me to smoke, use foul language, or not do my homework. And my dad went along with the rules they created, because they stuck together as a team.”

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You’re too Invested in Their Accomplishments

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Many parents receive a vicarious thrill from their children’s victories. And, in small doses, that can be okay. There’s nothing wrong with celebrating your kids’ achievements, but when they become tied in to your own sense of self-worth, it can reshape your sense of identity and erode the attention you devote to your partner. “It’s important to love and be proud of your children,” says, “but you’ll be more fulfilled in life and in love if you focus on and derive benefits from multiple sources – including your marriage.

You Only Talk About Your Kids

As parents, it can be hard to not always talk about your kids. But you need to try very hard to make that not the case. Because if you never talk about anything else when you go out by yourselves, then you’re not really a couple in that moment. You’re just co-parenting and you’ve lost the connection that brought you together in the first place. You have to make the time to enjoy each other’s company and relate to each other as a couple, not just two people saddled with the same responsibilities. “If you’re feeling like co-parents, try changing one thing about the way you interact starting today,” says O’Reilly. “For example, can you change your greetings and goodbyes. Can you wrap your arms around your partner when they walk in the door? Can you slip them tongue when you say goodbye in the morning? Or could you take 30 seconds to hold them, smell them, and feel their skin against yours when you wake up in the morning? Small changes can produce big rewards.”

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They Are Part of Every Routine

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When you’re brushing your teeth, getting into bed with your spouse, or (you know it’s happened) using the bathroom, are the kids there? This is a potential trouble spot in your marriage. While it’s understood and even expected that your kids are going to be underfoot for at least part of the time, when they start to get in the way of every little moment or opportunity you and your spouse have to connect, it can prove harmful to a marriage. In order to combat this, couples need to communicate, from having open discussions about privacy to even developing a private, shared language where they can communicate their frustrations to each other so that, even when they’re being interrupted, the connection remains intact. “The foundation of any good relationship is shared goals, rules, traditions, language,” says Carrie Krawiec, a licensed marriage and family therapist at the Birmingham Maple Clinic. “When a child inserts themselves in a couples routine, homeostasis is upset. Couples need to make sure that boundaries are being respected.”  

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They Create Drama That You Feed Into

Kids can be fatally addicted to creating drama in the household, doing whatever they need to in order to become the center of attention. They can also be disruptive, whining and throwing tantrums until they get their way. Additionally, they can constantly make jokes, play pranks and seek out ways to draw more attention to themselves. And all that attention they’re drawing is sucking energy and happiness out of you and your spouse. This is where you and your partner have to hold the line and not give in to your kids’ antics. You can’t encourage the behavior, nor can you distance yourself from it and leave your partner to clean up the mess. This is where teamwork is crucial. “Both parents must respect the family unit,” says Kimberly Friedmutter, author of Subconscious Power–Use Your Inner Mind to Create the Life You’ve Always Wanted. “Drama, strong personalities, and disruptors may try to upset the balance of the stable parental relationship but hold firm and keep your totem pole erect.”  

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They Are Always Between You. Literally. 

This might seem like a small thing, but over time it can create a large gap. If, every time you and your family watch a movie, go see a school play, or even out to eat, the kids are between you and your spouse, that can negatively impact your relationship. Even something as simple as sitting in the backseat with your child while your partner drives can be a problem. “What happens is that even when the then-infant is now six years old, the child and mother may be both conditioned to follow the seating pattern,” says Dr. Jocelyn Markowicz, a Michigan-based psychologist. “Now the husband no longer expects his wife to sit next to him while driving. He no longer expects to have hand-holding or adult conversation with his wife. Intimacy has changed.”  

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Your Life is Over-Scheduled

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Of course the needs of your children have to take some precedence in a marriage. But if every second of the day is built around their school schedules, playdates, sports and other activities, then your marriage is going to suffer. From an emotional perspective, it might feel right that your kids are at the center of your marriage, but that’s a mistake. When you and your spouse are at the center, then the kids and everything else will fall into place. “Talk to your spouse about how you would like things to look,” says professional counselor Heidi McBain, “and start to set boundaries with your kids so you can start to slowly carve out alone time for you and your partner again.”

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Michelle Obama and Meghan Markle Finally Met, and THIS Is What They Discussed – POPSUGAR Australia

Name a more iconic duo than Michelle Obama and Meghan Markle . . . I’ll wait. The former first lady is promoting her memoir Becoming, and we patiently awaited her tour stop in London and kept our fingers crossed that it would result in a meeting with the Duchess of Sussex. Well, royal-fanatics, our prayers have finally been answered, and it feels like a global summit of badass, empowering ladies. According to People, Meghan stopped by Michelle’s engagement at the Southbank Centre on Monday, where they met for the first time and spent time conversing privately.

“They spoke at length about the importance of supporting and empowering women across all cultures and communities,” People reported. “They also talked about shared experiences of pregnancy and raising children, plus shared causes including girls’ education.” I’ve never wanted to be a fly on the wall so badly during a conversation!

Michelle and Meghan’s power gathering came after Michelle offered advice for the mom-to-be in an interview with Good Housekeeping. “Like me, Meghan probably never dreamed that she’d have a life like this, and the pressure — from yourself and from others — can sometimes feel like a lot,” Michelle revealed in the recent interview. “So my biggest advice would be to take some time and don’t be in a hurry to do anything.”

The Obama family was especially close with the British royal family during Barack Obama’s time in office, and have remained close since — Prince Harry even interviewed Barack last year! The meeting between these two powerhouse females has us hoping for a friendship filled with parenting advice, marriage advice, and some hilarious text exchanges. Just don’t forget to include us in that group chat, OK?