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Watch Bella Thorne & Patrick Schwarzenegger Give Hilarious Dating Advice
Let’s face it: navigating the world of love and dating is really hard. There are just so many questions and unknowns. Like, what is the perfect way to ask someone you like out without seeming super thirsty while also minimizing any chance of being rejected? What does the “K” text really mean? And why oh whyyyyy does your S.O. say they’re not upset when it’s totally obvious they are?!
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Well, Bella Thorne and Patrick Schwarzenegger’s romantic new movie Midnight Sun just hit theaters and, in it, they play two teenagers named Katie and Charlie who meet and fall in love after he sees her playing the guitar at the local train station one night. But Katie is hiding a major secret that could stand in the way of their blossoming romance: She has a life-threatening sensitivity to sunlight and can’t go outside during the day.
Let’s just say that after making this complicated romance movie together, Bella and Patrick MUST know a thing or two about the nuances of love. Which is why when the pair stopped by Seventeen.com HQ, we quizzed them on your most Googled questions about dating.
We can’t give you all their advice right away, but here’s a little taste, from how to get your crush dancing at a party and what really makes someone sexy, to the eternal question of why people in relationships lie about being upset.
Check out their romance wisdom below.
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Could Bella and Patrick be any more right?! This is just a taste of all the amazing dating advice the superstar duo laid on us, but you can get the rest of it by checking out Seventeen’s YouTube channel on Monday.
In the meantime, let Katie and Charlie be your romantic guides by going to catch Midnight Sun in theaters now!
Woah, I just had a brilliant idea: This is the perfect chance to finally ask your crush to go on a movie date with you. YOU’RE WELCOME!
Noelle Devoe is the Entertainment Editor at Seventeen.com. Follow her on Twitter and Instagram!
Long Distance Relationship? Study Shows They Can work
Problem: Long-distance relationships (or LDRs, as they are sometimes known) are pretty universally acknowledged to be a bad idea, especially if the separation has no finite end-date. And sure, there are exceptions to the rule. One of the best couples I know dated long-distance for years, and they’re married now. But do you really want to bank on being an exception, in the face of a hazy future filled with Skype calls and expensive plane tickets?
But of course people do defy the advice of their more level-headed friends and go for the LDR. And a recent study provides them with some warm and fuzzy data to snuggle up to on nights when they’re missing their partners.
Methodology: Researchers at Queen’s University in Ontario, and the University of Utah, looked at 717 people in long-distance relationships, and 425 people in “geographically close relationships.” The sample size included both students and non-students, people of different sexualities, and a wide range of actual distances. The participants answered questions about their attitudes toward LDRs, and then completed multiple questionnaires designed to assess the quality of their relationships:
- An assessment that measures emotional, social, sexual, intellectual and recreational intimacy
- A commitment scale
- A scale that measures a relationship’s communication levels
- “Dyadic Adjustment Scale,” which measures couples’ disagreement on things like demonstrating affection and handling finances.
- “Dyadic Sexual Communication Scale,” which measures how well couples communicate about their sexual relationship.
- A measurement of female sexual satisfaction
- A measurement of male sexual satisfaction
- An assessment of the amount of psychological distress, anxiety, and depression a person has felt in the last month.
Results: “It appears as though those in [LDRs] are no less satisfied than those in [geographically close relationships],” the study reads. “Indeed, comparing participants based on sexual orientation, relationship composition, and student status revealed very similar relationship patterns. These results indicate that being in an [LDR] does not guarantee negative relationship outcomes.”
The factors that predicted positive relationship outcomes were not measured in miles. For example, those who felt more certainty in their relationships’ future had higher quality relationships. What’s more, greater distance apart actually predicted more intimacy, communication, and satisfaction in the relationship.
Implications: I made a tagline for a romantic comedy based on the results of this study: “It isn’t the length of the distance; it’s the strength of your love.” We could call it “LDR” and cast Shailene Woodley or Selena Gomez as an earnest college freshman who constantly Skypes with her boyfriend Josh Hutcherson.
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The study, “Go Long! Predictors of Positive Relationship Outcomes in Long Distance Dating Relationships” appeared in Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy
