Category Archives: Dating Advice

Five signs that you are being friend-zoned – Femina

Are you getting the sneaky feeling that the guy you have a crush on is slyly moving you into the friend zone? Take a look at the tell-tale signs below to know for sure.

He always meets you in a group: It’s clear that he doesn’t want to be caught having a one-on-one conversation about you. While he’s great fun and warm when you’re with other people, he is awkward and uncomfortable, or just plain disinterested, when he’s caught with you all alone.

He isn’t interested in your life: Does he unload all his life problems on you but lose interest when you start talking about your own issues? Well, this is clearly because he truly doesn’t care about what goes on in your life. He would never behave this way with a woman he was interested in.

He gives you dating advice: Have you ever been caught in an awkward situation when you’ve started talking about other men to him to make him feel jealous only to have him start giving you relationship advice? Well, there can be no clearer sign than this. And if he seems happy for you, he probably is, as a friend!

He talks about other women to you: A guy who has even the tiniest flicker of attraction towards you will not mention other women or how hot he finds them in your presence. If he’s discussing his crushes with you, you might as well find someone else to obsess about.

He’s Not Your Man Meme Is Here With Some Helpful Dating Advice – TIME

Have you ever found yourself dating someone who never responds to your texts, likes your tweets, but doesn’t retweet them, wears all black, and ate your plums, and wondering if you’ve been ghosted, if he’s cheating on you, or if he’s not who he claims to be? Twitter might be able to help. A new meme has taken over the social media site and it is chock full of dating advice—sort of.

According to meme database Know Your Meme, it all started when Twitter user @KylePlant Emoji posted the following tweet on November 22nd, 2018:

He didn’t create the format of the advice joke, but his brilliantly ridiculous punchline suggesting the person is dating former United States President Rutherford B. Hayes struck a chord and a funny bone. The tweet quickly gained over 20,000 retweets and 139,000 likes, going viral, and sparking countless variations on the theme with Twitter users suggesting women are dating a manatee, a long-dead poet, the Duolingo owl, the private insurance industry, and much more.

As the meme spread, brands and companies and TV shows have gotten in on the fun, too:

The dating advice is so patently silly that it’s all in good fun, at least until a Swedish court rules otherwise.

Contact us at editors@time.com.

Celebs Go Dating 2019 series 6: When does it start and who's on the line-up? – OK! magazine

Celebs Go Dating series 6: The show is returning to screens for its sixth series[Lime Pictures]

Celebs Go Dating has been confirmed for a brand new instalment on E4, with a whole host of celebrities being revealed for the new line-up.

Last series followed the likes of Olivia Attwood, Eyal Booker and Chloe Sims as they searched for The One under the watch of Paul Carrick Brunson and Tom Read-Wilson.

But when does the new season start? And which celebrities are enlisting the dating experts’ help in their look for love?

Celebs Go Dating: The show has returned to screens for season 5Celebs Go Dating series 6: The E4 series has been confirmed for a new instalment [E4]

Celebs go dating line upCelebs Go Dating series 6: TOWIE hunk Pete Wicks is on the new line-up [Lime Pictures]

Here’s everything we know so far about the new series of Celebs Go Dating…

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When does series 6 of Celebs Go Dating start?

The new Celebs Go Dating line-up has been revealedCelebs Go Dating series 6: Filming for the new instalment has already begun [E4]

A start date is yet to be announced by E4, however filming for the new instalment has already begun.

The first Celebs Go Dating mixer took place in mid-November, with scenes expected to air in early 2019.

Who’s on the Celebs Go Dating series 6 line-up?

Celebs go dating line upCelebs Go Dating series 6: Kerry Katona is looking for love on the E4 show [Lime Pictures]

Atomic Kitten star Kerry Katona, The Only Way Is Essex‘s Pete Wicks and Love Island beauty Georgia Steel are among those looking for love on the newly-confirmed Celebs Go Dating line-up. 

Also hoping to find someone on the show is Ibiza Weekender’s head rep David Potts and Waterloo Road and Hollyoaks actress, Chelsee Healey. 

Made In Chelsea heart-throb Sam Thompson is also making a comeback to the show, just months after his first appearance earlier in 2018. 

Celebs go dating line upCelebs Go Dating series 6: Sam Thompson is returning for another go at love [Lime Pictures]

Speaking about her arrival on the show, unlucky in love Kerry said: “‘I’ve never done anything like this before. If what I’ve been doing before hasn’t been working I may as well try something new!

“I’ve been on dating apps but to be honest they didn’t work. I’m so excited to be joining the agency and see who Anna and Paul set me up with!”

While Sam added: “I’ve had a rough old run in the love stakes so I’m back to my spiritual home at the dating agency! It’s about time I got lucky in love, so let’s see if this time round I can find that special someone!”

Megan McKennaCelebs Go Dating series 6: Megan McKenna will reportedly join ex Pete Wicks later in the series [Instagram ]

Pete’s ex girlfriend and former TOWIE co-star Megan McKenna is also reportedly joining the line-up as a last-minute addition.

Why has Anna Williamson replaced Nadia Essex on Celebs Go Dating?

Anna Williamson Celebs Go Dating: The new agent has been confirmed Celebs Go Dating series 6: Anna Williamson has joined the dating agency [Lime Pictures]

A new expert will be joining Paul C Brunson and Tom Read Wilson after Nadia Essex bowed out halfway through the last season of Celebs Go Dating. 

Relationship counsellor and dating expert Anna Williamson, 37, will be joining Paul to offer the celebs advice in their mission to find The One. 

It won’t be Anna’s first TV stint either, having appeared as an expert on shows including This Morning, Good Morning Britain, Inside Out and Single AF.

Celebs Go Dating: Nadia Essex was less than impressed with Alik's actionsCelebs Go Dating series 6: Nadia Essex left the show halfway through the last season [E4]

Speaking of her new role, she said: “I am so excited to be joining Paul and Tom in the Celebrity Dating Agency.  I’ve been a big fan of the show since it launched.

“Celebrities are known for not being backwards in coming forwards in their work life, however being unlucky in love seems to be the common theme amongst many of the celebrities I’ve met throughout my career.

“I’m looking forward to taking them under my wing, dishing out some tough love where needed, and making changes to help them bag the date of their dreams – and this time, keep hold of them!”

Celebs Go Dating feared to be AXED after Nadia Essex drops huge clueCelebs Go Dating series 6: Eden Blackman has claimed Nadia trolled him on social media [Wenn]

In September, it was confirmed that Nadia had been suspended from season 5 of Celebs Go Dating after her former co-star Eden Blackman, who quit just months earlier, claimed that he was the victim of her trolling, telling The Sun that Nadia created at least two social media accounts to target him online. 

Three days after the news of her suspension was confirmed, Nadia announced to fans that she had quit the show.

Taking to Twitter the star wrote: “Today I have officially resigned From Celebs Go Dating.”

Celebs Go Dating will return to E4.

How To Be A Better Father – AskMen

Want To Be The Best Dad Ever? Follow These Three Core Principles

Let’s get one thing out of the way with: Being a father is not easy.

If it were, you probably wouldn’t be reading this article — you’d be out playing with your kids, skipping through fields of sunlit grass together, free as birds, without a care.

But you’re not. You’re here — because being a dad is tough, and you, like any sensible father or father-to-be, are a little bit nervous about it.

Maybe you’re scared that you’ll screw your kid up psychologically, or you’ll shake them as a baby, or you won’t be able to afford the right clothes and toys for them and they’ll get made fun of at school, or you’ll be too strict and they’ll come to resent you later in life. Who knows! That’s just a fraction of all the stuff dads have to think about. And let’s not even get into when you have two or more kids.

Because each and every child is unique, and because, say, diaper-changing advice doesn’t really help out dads with 12-year-old kids, this article will aim to shoot for broad-concept fatherhood stuff. So if you’re looking for very granular parenting advice, you’ve come to the wrong place. Think of this like the pillars of being a good dad, instead.

(And remember, however old you or your children are, it’s never too late to start applying these lessons.)

1. Talk To Your Kids

This might seem obvious — and if you’re the father of a child in the “Why?” phase, you might hate this advice — but it’s so, so important to talk to your kids. This is true for a few reasons, and it’s easy to screw it up. No one expects you to pay incredibly close attention to every single word that comes out of your children’s mouths for the entirety of their lives, but you should make talking to them an important aspect of your parenting.

Listen

For starters, this could help save your kid’s life! Rarely will it be so life-and-death, but a toddler babbling about a knife or a teenager mumbling about depression are both situations that could potentially lead to serious outcomes if left unaddressed. A good dad who listens to his kids will be able to hear warning signs — and perhaps even more importantly, if you’ve been making listening to your kids a priority, you’ll be that much more keenly aware when they stop talking, which is often just as bad a sign.

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Be Kind

An easy mistake to make is to confuse a child who’s not yet fully articulate with someone you don’t need to invest in, conversationally. Your child might not be able to hold an intellectual discussion — or any kind of discussion — but they can and will sense it if you’re not holding up your end of things. Curt responses, non-responses and angry responses will all register with your kid, and too many of them could turn them off talking to you altogether. Show them you’re invested in what they have to say and they’ll respond to your energy.

Make It Regular

Another way to show them you’re invested, beyond your in-the-moment attention and generosity of attention is to make your conversations with them a regular thing. Children are constantly evolving beings, and being a parent means you get to interact with someone whose mental capacity, interests and personality could have shifted entirely within a few months. Don’t be one of those dads wondering where the time went later on in life: Prioritize talking to your children on a regular basis now so you can get to know them now — before they’ve grown into the next version of themselves.

Ask Them Questions

Once they’ve reached school age and are spending most of their waking lives outside the home, you won’t have as much access to what their day-to-day lives are like. Be curious about their lives. Don’t act like a drill sergeant; some days they won’t have much to recount, but try to create conversational spaces for them to share with you the things they’re learning, the feelings they’re feeling, the places they’re going, the people they’re meeting. And don’t be afraid to match some of what they share with stories of your own. You might not have the same way of looking at the world, but finding commonalities between you and your child can go a long way toward making them feel loved and understood.

Follow Up

One of the best ways to clearly establish that you’re paying attention to someone is to retain what they’ve said and bring it up at a later date. Whether your kid’s telling you about an imaginary friend or a music genre that was just invented last month, do your best to remember what they’re saying. Being able to refer to the things your kids tell you later on will show them in a big way that what they’re saying to you is registering, and that’ll make them feel respected and understood in a way that you simply can’t if you need to ask them about stuff constantly. Pro tip: If you find yourself struggling to retain stuff, it wouldn’t hurt to invest some time into recording some key details that you can check in on later.

2. Show Your Kids That You Care

One of the stereotypes of bad dads is that they make their kids feel unloved, one way or another. There are a ton of different ways to show someone you care about them, and if your child is still pretty young, there might not be a particularly good way of knowing which one(s) will resonate most with them. But you can do your best to cover your bases until they’re old enough to tell you which ones are most important to them.

Use The “L” Word

Tell your children you love them. This might feel weird, and it might not be something you heard from your dad, but make a point to establish this tradition as early on as you can and to keep it up as time goes by — even if (hell, especially if) they reach a point where they respond with, “Ewww, Dad!” or “Yeah, whatever, loser.” Telling your children you love them sincerely and regularly will communicate to them 1) that you care about them in a deeply special way and 2) that you’re not afraid to say it. Lots of people grow up feeling their father’s love for them, but there’s a reason we say “I love you” to the people we care about most — to confirm it. Don’t leave your kids guessing about your feelings.

Spend Time With Them

This is a tricky one, because dads are often the de facto breadwinners, and the fear of being a failure as a provider can easily override the fear of not being there often enough. But you really cannot replace time spent together, and the memories you make with your kids will mean more to you than any money you earn at work. However crazy your schedule is, make quality time with your kids something that you find a way to fit in — and engage in regularly.

Give Them Gifts

Gift-giving is another way to show affection that will be easier for some dads than others, but not all gifts are expensive, and not all gifts are store-bought. It could be as simple as buying a snack for the two of you to share on the way home after you pick your kid up from something, or toy that comes in a box roughly the size of a fridge — or it could be something you made yourself. Whatever form your gifts come in, don’t restrict them to just Christmas and birthdays — give your child a little something here and there, whether planned or spontaneously — and they’ll feel cherished and special.  

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Expend Effort On The Relationship

This is something that might get covered by either time spent together or gifts given, but it won’t always, and frankly, it’s worth mentioning on its own. One thing that really communicates caring is effort. If you have a lot of money, buying gifts won’t feel hard; if you have a lot of free time, spending it with your kid won’t feel hard. Effort means putting in work on your kid’s upbringing, and not just doing the easy and fun parts. Be there for your kids when they’re crying. Help them fix their mistakes. Have the awkward conversations with them. Skip out on things you want to do or feel like you have to do sometimes if your kid needs you to be there for them. Get up early to take them to the games, skip out on work early to see them in their school play. Whatever you do, make sure your fatherhood isn’t one where you just coast by and let other people do the heavy lifting.

3. Prepare Them For Life

This is an aspect of fatherhood that gets a lot of airtime in pop culture, and that’s why it’s last in this article. Unfortunately, many dads seem like they skipped right to this while only giving the other stuff a light skim. But a person who’s been raised feeling like they matter and their father really cares about them will probably be a lot better off than a child who’s been rigorously prepared for the harshness of life (and knows how to change a tire) but doesn’t have a foundation of love and support under it all.

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Set A Good Example

The infamous “do as I say, not as I do” quote that parents love to use is a cop-out, and everyone knows it. If you’re asking your kids to live by certain rules, they should be rules you yourself can and do live by. Moreover, kids will pick up on how you act and carry yourself in the world. If there are aspects of your life you’re not proud of, now might be a good time to start working on them. Nobody’s perfect, but your kids will think you are until they’re of a certain age. If you’re teaching them to be polite and respectful and honest, show them that those are virtues you live by as well by treating them and the other people in your life right.

Own Your Mistakes

When you fall short of the example you’re trying to set, it’s important that you don’t try to sweep it under the rug. Not only is that a bad example to set, but it tacitly implies that there are two sets of rules in life — a taxing, exacting set for them and a relaxed, informal set for you. That stings, and it’ll cause them to resent you. It might be embarrassing, but when you screw up, own it — like you would if you had to apologize to an adult. If you overreact and scream at them, apologize for it, and explain why you got so angry. They might not be able to communicate how they feel as clearly, but they’ll respect your honesty, and they’ll learn the right approach to handling their own mistakes when they make them.

Tell Them No

This one sort of runs counter to all the lovey-dovey “be nice” advice earlier, but it’s deeply important to set boundaries for your kids. Spend time with them, tell them you love them, care about what they say and do, give them gifts — but set limits, and enforce them. Selfish, egotistical adults are just people who grew out of children who were never made to consider the needs of others. When your kids hurt people, cross boundaries or otherwise screw up, teach them that there are consequences and not to repeat their mistakes. That isn’t to say you should try to hurt or scare them, but work with them to find punishments and lessons that’ll help them consider what they did, why it was wrong, and how not to do it again.

Invest In Their Passions

One of the ways we become the adults we’re growing into is by deciding what we want to focus our attention on. It’s a huge and complicated world out there, and you can’t possibly pursue every hobby, but feeling supported in your interests is a big part of getting good at something. When your kids start getting passionate about things, support them! Even (especially) if they’re not necessarily things you’re good at. Don’t be the dad who’s constantly pushing his kids into something they don’t care about — find out what your kids are good at and support them in that, whether it’s a dumb card game, a niche artistic passion or something you find personally annoying. The kid who’s really good at arguing today could be a future debate champion; the kid whose confidence has been boosted by supportive parenting is all the more likely to succeed at a new passion than one who’s used to hearing “No” or “You’ll look dumb” or “There’s no money in that.”

Be In Their Corner

It’s a difficult world out there, and one of the things that makes parenting scary is sending your kid out into a world that’s hellbent on ridiculing anyone who’s a little bit different. A tried-and-true parenting method for dealing with that is trying to sand down your kid’s quirky edges at home so the rest of the population doesn’t get a chance to. That’s why we get fathers telling their kids to “Man up!” rather than comforting them or discouraging them from trying anything that might get made fun of at school. But rather than doing the bullies’ jobs for them, consider your role as the coach in your kid’s corner. It’s true that it can be scary confronting a world that at times seems full of cruelty and violence, but if your kid comes home crying, remember that the one to blame is the person who hurt them — not you or your kid. If they understand that the teasing or bullying isn’t their fault — and that you have their back no matter what — it’ll be that much easier to weather the storm.