Category Archives: Relationships
5 Tips To Make Sure You Stay Together
Thinking of Tying The Knot? 5 Tips To Make Sure You Stay Together. You see, often people get married with the idea that their “chemistry”or undying love for each other will keep them together forever. However, with almost 50% of marriages ending in divorce these days, it’s
obvious that this isn’t the case. Therefore, it pays to know a few little
secrets before getting married.
Here are 5 tips that help keep couples together long after tying the knot:
Tip #1 – Continue dating
Over the years, people often drift apart or relationships and marriages become
stale because couples fail to do new and special things together. That’s why
going on new and refreshing dates is so important. In fact, there is something
about “dating” that creates a sense of magic in a relationship and
can even bring relationships out of a rut. While on a date, you also put more
effort into your appearance, have more uninterrupted time to communicate on
a deeper level and are naturally drawn closer together. Stuck for ideas? Spend the day at the aquarium, zoo, museum, carnival, bookstore, beach or park.
Why The Most Awesome Women End Up With The Biggest Jerks
Everyone’s known that awesome girl who’s funny, nice, smart and attractive … and who always seems to end up with that awful guy who’s rude, inattentive, irresponsible and never appreciates her.
Well, you’re about to find out.
Because no, women do not just flock to these jerky idiots for fun. There are actual reasons why the “bad guy always gets the girl.”
How a Ms. Amazing Can End Up With a Mr. First-Class Jerk
1. She’s attracted to his smug attitude and neglect.
It doesn’t really make sense, but when a guy is always “busy,” doesn’t respond to your texts or calls, ogles other women, makes you pay and and doesn’t act like he cares about you in any way shape or form … it can be an odd turn that leaves you wanting more.
2. All she cares about is good looks and a smokin’ bod.
A lot of women are naturally attracted to good looks and a hot body. Who wouldn’t be?
But what’s sad here is that a lot of women put these attributes first and above all else. Women who are themselves very attractive and physically fit will only seek these features in their potential partners. They will put a six pack, strong jaw and flawless skin above being kind, decent, reliable and faithful. Naturally, this is to their detriment.
5 Awesome Benefits of Cuddling
Developing intimacy and happiness in a relationship is a full time job that requires an exceptional amount of commitment. Intimacy comes in many forms; however, one would be hard pressed to find a physical mechanism that helps to cultivate closeness and intimacy in a relationship the way that cuddling does.
There are multitudinous physical and psychological benefits associated with cuddling. Not only does it help to develop a strong bond within the relationship, but it also provides a number of individual health benefits.
There is something remarkably affirming about cuddling. It is the one way to express love without having to say a word. It is a powerful way to connect with your partner, and it provides warmth and security.
Ready to check out 5 of the most amazing benefits? Let’s go!
1. Cuddling Strengthens the Relational Bond
There are numerous studies that reveal that the closer you are to your partner during sleep hours, the more likely you will be to feel satisfied and happy with your relationship in general.
Actually, cuddling is a natural human activity that begins at birth, and humans relate the warmth of cuddling with the feeling of love and security they felt as infants.
Research also reveals that cuddling releases oxytocin, which is the “good time” hormone; subsequently, the feeling of overall happiness rises to an exceptional level.
7 Huge Mistakes Women Always Make In Relationships
In a relationship, perfect disaster comes when errors are made on both sides. It is never fully the mistake of the man and neither is it the complete mistake of the woman. Both the parties play an equal part. Here, we will concentrate more on the problems, or rather the mistakes, that women sometimes make in relationships which can lead to a disaster.
I would want to clear yet another thing in this case, it is very easy to say that only women make mistakes. This is never the case, because men also make mistakes. We always think that a small fight is nothing to worry about but in some situations, a small fight leads to a bigger disaster. A small problem can make both parties angry at a level that they do not want to compromise and when they would not want to compromise, they would keep on fuelling the fire.
So let’s start pointing out those mistakes that women make.
1. You Don’t Know Your Own Value
This might be one of the most common areas where I work with my female clients. Do you chase after the bad boys who treat you poorly and only want them more? Are you attracted to all the unavailable guys? Are you afraid to ask for what you want? Do you put up with nonsense expecting that “one day” it will magically change? If so, welcome to the club — you are far from alone. You, my dear, do not know your value. The truth is that there are only two fears in the human condition: one is that you’re “not enough,” and two is that you won’t be loved. Let’s be clear: this will keep you single until it changes. Ironically, the thing that will keep you stuck here for years or even decades is that no man can really respect a woman who will allow him to treat her so shabbily, so this truly is a self-inflicted wound. I’m sorry for being so blunt, but the truth will set you free — even if it makes you angry or defensive first. If that’s the case, don’t bother getting mad at me. I cared enough to level with you so you can actually have all the love you truly deserve.
